The 5 Love Languages With Dr Gary Chapman

This is one of those products I get to rave about. Summary: Dr. Chapman does a great job of creating a simple to understand way of making your partner feel more loved. He breaks it down into the areas of life that we, as individuals, experience feeling love. What you'll learn is that each of us has a different balance of those languages of love. COURSE EXAMPLES: A couple examples of this are that some people feel loved with "words of affirmation" while others may feel love through "acts of service". So, if the person who loves words always uses words, because that's what they like, on a person who responds to "acts of service", they are missing the target with their partner. The "words of affirmation" person can now adjust their way of loving by speaking their partners language and doing ... "acts of service". This works the other way as well. An "acts of service" wife who cooks and cleans (acts of service) may need to adjust and speak "words of affirmation" to her partner and thank him verbally for the things he does for her. This man who only tells this wife she's great, will do better to jump in and clean dishes more often because she responds to acts of service. Learning more about this has improved my relationship with my fiance in a very positive way. Something to note is that the techniques can also be applied to business relationships as well as personal. It reminds me of the book (I know this is a dvd review.), "Who Moved My Cheese?". It's simple, clear, and easy to implement. Pros: 1) It's a clear recording of the seminar, so you can either watch or listen to it. I suggest watching it with your partner if possible. 2) He seems to be a genuinely loving therapist with real life experience he brings from his own marriage. 3) There are only five love languages, so it's easy to remember and think of during regular days of being busy. 4) It's only $15. For the positive shift watching might have in one's life, this is deal. 5) He's out to truly make a difference in the world. Cons: 1) Some people may not like that he mentions God a few times. I am good with it. Just sharing this so people are prepared. FOR SINGLE PEOPLE: I also recommend the "The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition [Audio CD]". This has some great ideas and techniques that will make dating and finding a match much easier. For full disclosure, I am a dating and human behavior coach ( Inviting Mr. Right ), so it is even more important that this is a higher-quality learning tool I can suggest to clients.

I have the book and have read it cover to cover many times, although I prefer listening (or watching) as to reading, which is why I bought this DVD to share and loan out to others. This book gave me insight into relationships, what the "needs" are of various people, male and female. We are all different and we all have different expectations. This program gives insight as to what others needs are as well as recognize our own and be able to share them with those around us. Example: Some people need to HEAR "I Love You" rather than RECEIVE gifts or things. Others feel loved with touch, whether it be kiss or holding hands, etc. Anyway, it is an excellent book, and have recommended it to my children, family, and friends.

I was looking for a presentation for Marriage Enrichment and a increased understanding of the 5 Love Languages. IT is good - not Great ! I am looking for another DVD by Gary Smalley for Group Discussion. His approach is outstanding !I will continue to search for more @ Amazon.

This is a great video a companion piece to the book. My wife and I share the book on our Kindles and we watch the video in sections to spark conversation about what we have read. Love languages has helped me understand my wife better and both of us get the love we want.

I always keep a copy of this in my library on Marriage to loan and give away. The love languages concept has been pivotal in many of my relationships and in understanding myself and what I expect from friends, family. Every young couple should read this and have a good handle on these concepts before getting married - or even dating for that matter. It's a little cheesy in the beginning, but get passed that in the first few chapters and an understanding of your own and others' languages can bring insight to all types of relationships in life.

good info but a lot to pay for such a short video!

This DVD is something that I believe every couple needs. My husband and I have benefited from watching it and reading the book in so many ways. Now that we know each other's love language we are able to communicate like we never have before. It is amazing how something so simple can make such a huge difference. :) Oh, and he is funny! That was a big plus for me.

I have the old tape series of this video and got the video to show at a couple retreat coming up next month. It's great, but I wish you could go to each love language without fast feeding.

I would recommend this DVD (book) to all married couples. Well worth learning. Will improve communication in marriage. Will improve your love in marriage.

Every couple should read and see this

Thought provoking.... This DVD will change the way you view relationships in your life Simple yet transformational.

A must see for anyone in a loving relationship.